Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Palace Pier, Brighton














































Brighton

University of Brighton, Crockcrof Building. I used to study on 6 floor for group discussion, 7th floor for lab and 8th floor is a very big auditorium
Churchill Sq

Our usual meeting up place in churchill sq


Brighton and Hove Bus, still look the same! remember No. 25 back to sussex U?

Cursed Blessing Chain email

I am sure all of u must had recieved those meant to be a bless email from friends!
I hated those emails starts with sweet words and says that good luck is coming IF u forwarded the email out to others.
Seriously, i don't forward this kind of mail out after i read it, infact i alway delete it!
Now....beside all the sweet bless, there is always the curse part saying that if u are not sending it out within how many minutes or to how many person, u will be cursed by bad luck or u will never meet ur mr. right!
Right.....i guess i found the reason of being bad luck or still being single now.......
Still, i delete it after i read or now i choose not to read it when i see those kind of title....
i hope by doing this, good luck will come to me one day!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Hang 机

最近朋友的聪明车(Smart Car)不时会Hang 机。所谓的Hang 机 就真的突然驾驶到一 半停了下来, 必须要从新开机re-boot the whole system! 朋友还很幽默的说,必须要把窗口关上再打开!(close Window and open Window)

最近我发现我的头脑也会突然间变得很空白。原来人脑和电脑也一样会Hang 机! 原来,任何东西都有机会突然 失灵和消失!

有的时候在想,电脑会每隔几秒 auto save 一次, 那我们人脑呢?是不是更需要做 Back up 呢?

很怕忘记你对我的好,很怕忘记我们之间的相处。。。
但是也无可避免的做好心理准备你可能会随时忘记我和我们之间的种种。。。
很多东西都很难去量化,但是一旦消失了,就会比一缕白烟还要轻。
在我做着back up 的当时,希望你也会好好的back up 这属于我们的Project Folder.

当到了Project closing date 的时候,希望大家都会在这个Project 当中,吸取了一点点的经验,一点点的心得和拥有一点点地回忆。。。。。

除妖记

最近出现了很多妖精,就好像苍蝇那样的磐在身边。从小妖精的小动作到大妖怪的印度把戏,直把我搞得浑身不舒服!

小欣欣本来就已经置身于道外,但是疯言狗 语和小动作还是要被我发现!
都已经把主要神经线都关掉了!把所有的触角都收起来了,为的就是 当一只鸵鸟!难道要我把中枢神经线 也给剪断掉才可以吗?
求神拜佛,夏天的阳光可以把所有的妖怪都除去,

让我好好享受这在英国最后的一个夏天!

妖怪统统都给我见光死!!!!

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Surprise trip

Initially I plan to go back to brighton this coming friday but my friend got an urgent meeting and we were force to cancel the trip.
Out of suddent, friend's meeting cancel and we are free to go again!
Hurray!!!!!
Y am i so excited to go back brighton? I've been there just last july too.
But last year, i went back as a tourist, bringing friends to those tourist place..
What i really want is to have a chance to walk through my memories..
Some of u might know that i used to study in Brighton long long time ago (okay, its about 12 yrs ago) So, i always want to go back to visit all the old places eg. university, my house, the place i go for grocery, the place we hang out during weekend and have fun.........
To be able to go back and visiting all these places, its like a close up for that chapter of life.
To be able to kind of fulfill the uncompleted dreams........
(iayo...how come suddenly so sentimental 1 har?)
Anyway, i purposely choose to go back on friday as the university might still be open and i can go in to have a look, perhaps to the place i use to study or having my lunch...
The feeling of being able to see the changes over 12yrs, to the places, to the building and to the people is undiscripable
How i wish i am still the 19 yrs old girl who is arriving to the city alone with no friends and trying to see the world thro her small little eye, (ok, those sussex guy arrive about a month later...)
Every step is full of advantureous with a bit of scared and excitment......
I guess i am too old for all this feeling anymore....
I should try to regain my excitement and enthusiasm of my life starting from this Brighton trip!
Be prepare for an exciting summer!!!!!!
p/s: sussex guysssss, any special request on photo taking ? which part of brighton u miss the most??? Lets share!

Monday, May 18, 2009

夏日之旅ssssssssss

夏天要到了,大家的话题都围绕着要去那里旅行。
廉价航空和连锁酒店开始大减价!
搞到我心 洋洋,右手开始不受控制,一直去按老鼠。。。
(话说,有人就停不了手 一直网上购物,我就停不了手订机票和酒店。。。)
结果就把接下来的行程定得满满的。。。。。
无论如何不用我一个人自己去旅行,只要开心就好了!
难得有人可以结伴去旅行!差一点就要下跪拜谢了!
所谓十年修的同船渡,百年修来共枕眠,
我应该也修了很多年才可以修到有人结伴去旅行吧?!!
已经很满足了!

2009 夏天之旅行程表

小欣欣2009 夏天之旅 行程表

May
23-25th, Camping at Staines, Laleham Park.
30th, BBQ party at home

June
5-7th, Caravan Trip to Hasting, Sussex
19-21st, Leeds & Nottingham Trip- A trip to Memory Lanes
寻找回忆的脚步之旅。

July
3-6th, Southern France, The Purple Romance Trip
普鲁旺斯夏日紫色浪漫薰衣草之旅 + 影城康城+ 赌
城摩纳哥-Monte Carlo之旅
Provence- Cannes- Nice- Monaco (Monte-Carlo)
31st July- 2nd Aug, Summer Switzerland trip- The Trip to Conquer the Mt. Jungfra
- 夏天瑞士二度征服少女峰之旅

Aug
28-31st, Summer in Rome & Venice, Italy
威尼斯,罗马文化之旅

Sept
24-26th, Spain, Barcelona Trip – Exotic Spanish
热情奔放的巴塞罗那之旅

Some of the places has been repeated but i am going in a different season this time. Those are the places that i dun mind visiting it again.
I believe i can present u a very different photos and experience although the places has been repeated! I ensure u that u will not be dissapointed or feel boring with it!
Yeah~! Lets get ready for the Summer tripssss!!!
I am sure its going to be in real fun!

P/S: in between, I am trying to fit in a few more local UK trips to a few places :)
Let see how its goes!!

悠哉游哉的周末。

刚过去的周末 过得特别充实和有意义!简直是一了我多年来梦寐以求的外国夏天生活!
终于 有机会尝试在自家后院BBQ 的滋味!人少少, 不用忙着招待客人,没有时间的限制,可以很悠闲的享受!加上超市腌制好的肉还出奇的好 吃!简直是近乎于完美!
烧烤后天还 很亮,就把刚买好的脚车装上,去附近的公园骐脚踏车!
整个周末就在悠哉游哉, 煮煮吃吃当中度过。
真正的一级享受!

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Weekend Cycling at nearby Park

Park nearby my house with wild flowers! Absolutely fantastic place for cycling and also picnic









My Moutain bike on the green grass

Weekend Cooking

Wanton Mee
Nasi Lemak

Loh Mai Gai!


Saturday BBQ at home




Home made Bo-bo Cha-cha with Durian! Truely Delicious!!!!


Home made Char siew

Friday, May 15, 2009

My Mountain Bike

I brought this 2nd hand mountain bike thro my company classified from a colleague at £45.
I think it is a great deal since a new bike cost about £200.
Dun really want to spent too much on it as i just want a bike for leisure purposes.
Hoping for a good weather so that i can go out for a ride!
Should be a good experience riding in the park with the breeze :)
Come on! Pls give me good weather this weekend !!!

My Orchid

Orchid has always been my favourite flowers too (okok, basically i love all kind of flowers la!)
but i always plan to have an orchid. Initially i though of planting it in my KL apartment but i wasn't around all the time to take care of it!
Finally, I get 1 for myself yesterday! Its on sales and only cost me £5 per pot!
By the way, this is the window view corner of my room.
Nice hor!
Will snap some picture of my new house this weekend :)

My Art Plant

Saw this spongy look plant in an ah X shop 2 weeks ago.
Suddenly my creactivity though flooded in after i left the shop.
Yesterday drop by to pick it up.
Here it is, my Little Mr & Mrs Mushroom Head :)
Cute or not jek?

Ingredient:
Mr. Mushroom
Eye: spare button
Mouth: Mascara curl's rubber
Mrs. Mushroom
Eye: Hair pin froom korea
Crown: Post-it paper
Mouth: Mascara curl's rubber

I am going to trim them this weekend :)

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

習慣

習慣,就是時間累積而來的一種動作。

早上,我總是走進7-eleven。
走了走,東選西選,還是選回了每天吃的三明治。

進到辦公室坐下後,總是開了機收信,然後放歌,
看了看,上選下選,還是聽起了那首最愛聽的。
人生總有很多的選擇。
每天要面對的選擇,很多。
吃什麼,做什麼,玩什麼,看什麼....
雖然你每天都在做選擇。

不過,總是...總是...
會選回你每次選的那個。
因為習慣。
習慣,是時間累積而來的一種動作。

情人間常說:「我對你不再有愛,都變成了習慣了。」
其實,習慣並沒有什麼不好。
它讓你自然的去做。
自然的去想他,自然的去愛他。

當你已經不覺得自己在付出時,
也許你覺得,你己開始習慣,有他陪伴在你的生命中,
那才是真的愛。
有什麼不好?

我一直認為
很多事情開始要一個人獨自去做時
就失去它的意義:

當習慣了兩個人一起吃飯
習慣了兩個人一起看書
習慣了兩個人一起工作
習慣了兩個人一起散步
習慣了兩個人一起回家
習慣了兩個人一起聊天
習慣了兩個人一起商量事情
習慣了兩個人一起發呆
習慣了兩個人一起喝咖啡
習慣了兩個人一起..........

開始一個人
很多快樂都不再了...
請珍惜你身邊所有
把握任何一個美麗的機會
失去了就不再了...
現在請你回想一下
你習慣的那個人,是不是讓你感覺很熟悉,就像家人一樣?
這種感覺,不是那麼容易就可以擁有的,應該好好的珍惜。
也許有天你失去了,才會明白這個人,在你的心理是佔了很大的位置。
好緣份是很神奇的東西,它只送給用心去經營的人。
最近你是否不再那麼用心,去關心或態度冷淡了嗎???
趕快去抓住你那個熟悉的人吧,必竟你們曾經走過那一段,不是嗎?

P/S: Copy from internet

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Pancake Dessert

Pancake with Nutella+ Banana
Pancake with Berries icecream and strawberries
Need to watch my weight closely liao...

凶案现场。。

主谋:大风
帮凶:椅子

尸体:刚发芽的水仙花。。。

心痛死我了。。。。
一心以为只要用心付出,就一定会有收获,
原来这个世界上并没有一份耕耘,一份收获的歌仔可以唱的!
就连最简单的种花也都一样。。

Provision Driving License

It has been long due for me to apply for a provisional driving license. My msia driving license only allow me to drive in UK for for 1 year starting from the day i enter....
In order for me to continue driving in UK, i must get a british license.
The reason for me not applying the PDL is bcos i will have to sent my passport to the DVLA for indentificaiton proof. This is going to take about a month but i was bc traveling previously.
Now, i make up my mind and sent out my passport for the application. ( i am praying hard that the royal mail delivery will have extra care on passport delivery!! i have no sense of secure by sending it out by post but i have no choice!)
So, from now on, i have no passport! no identification :(
And i cannot go anyway outside of UK....
But dun worry, i still got lots of activities planned inside UK :)
Cant stop enjoying life geh mar!!!!
ahaahahahahahahahha
p/s: hand itchy itchy and already start click click browse browse lo.....
brother and sister mun, where else u all wanna go huh??

咸鸭蛋!

不是骗你的!自制咸鸭蛋!
材料:
鸭蛋和盐水.
3 个星期后, 刚刚好可以包粽子!!
我家的大厨还真的不简单!

Home Cook 滑蛋河

Thanks to my home chef, Home Cook Wat tan Ho!!! zen zen Oishi des!!!!
卖相和味道都太赞了!!!

Monday, May 11, 2009

A Touching Article


MARRIAGE

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before th e divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the si tting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and w rote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. Her heart had finally broke down...The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah...blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Sorry for not blogging for sometime. I wondering y i suddenly become so bc (?) after moving house.
Ah...I know...
Now i have got a big garden to play with, bc doing planting and looking after my plant.
New house also has Sky tv whereby i can just on the tv and there will be something to suits my taste. Then i got stuck on the sofa to be a couch potatoes....
I also bc enjoying the sunshine, UK weather has been very very promising and we have warm weather and lots of sunshine! this makes me want to just sit outdoor and enjoy some outdoor activities!
Oh ya, i will be going for camping in on the 23-25th May. This is my first camping trip after a long long time since high school St. John's camping in Templer Park!
Really looking forward and will snap more photos to share with u all!
Oh, ya, i will be going to HULL to visit Annie and her little boy this coming friday. Will spent a weekend with them after my last visit which is about a year ago!!!!
By end of May, My house is having a big BBQ party (for 25person!!) as a farewell party to 2 of my friend who is leaving UK.
By begining of June, 5-7th June, i will be going for a caravan trip to Hasting (somewhere along the seaside ) My first caravan trip although we dun get to drive the caravan but we get to stay inside a caravan for 2 nights :)
phew! sounds bc now right?? kekekekek
Lots of outdoor activities right?
thats what summer are meant for!!!!!!!
Lets enjoy!

Sunday, May 3, 2009

放风筝记







你有多久没有放过风筝了呢?我真的很久很久了,应该是小学毕业过后吧?
今天朋友突然心血来潮,邀了一起去放风筝!
问题来了,居然不懂要怎样绑线!试了很久都不成功!!
还好最后还是我厉害,发现了窍门,原来风筝少了一根骨,没有办法,只好往草丛 里找,居然还可以给我们找到一根树枝来代替!
终于,风筝可以高高的翱翔了!


Weekend Gardening








My New House got a very big and beautiful garden, thats y make me wanna plant more flowers :)
So looking forward for the flower to bloom. I had tulips, sunflower and some vege and herbs planted!! will update the growing progress accordingly!
Oh! I love my garden so much! I can just sit there the whole morning, enjoying my breakfast and the warm sunshine!
What else that i can demand for?

Friday, May 1, 2009

初夏。。

现在是英国的初夏,今年的夏天是在是有可期待的!
听说英国已经好几年没有好的夏天了!
每当看到晴朗和阳光普照的天气, 心里所有的阴霾都会一扫而空!
是我太容易被感染了还是我要求不高?
但是我只知道一看到阳光,我就会很兴奋了!
好喜欢初夏的感觉,微热的阳光随着阵阵的凉风 迎面而来!!
把所有的烦恼都抛之于脑后!
好好的享受这眼前的一切吧!!

近况

对不起哦!搬家以后都没有时间写部落格。。
为什么今天一口气发泄那么多呢?
因为今天是劳动节,马来西亚没有人上班,没有哪排山倒海的电邮飞插进来!
再加上是星期五,公司一半以上的人都没来上班,我乐的清闲和轻松,
那就大发我 压迫了很久的文采吧!(开始作呕了吧?)
之前的财政危机,在我精明的打算下,终于开始绽露出一点点地曙光!
随着4 月份的薪水, 我终于把我英国的卡债还光了!
还可以寄钱会去清一清马来西亚的账目!
好开心哦!
有一点多余的钱在口袋,开始心痒痒了,已经4 个月没有买过东西了!
是不是要奖励奖励一下自己?
嘻嘻嘻。。。买是买啦,不过是买机票和定酒店咯!
小欣欣又要去旅行咯!!!!
看看这个周末有什么灵感!要不然就那个欧洲地图出来,
拿笔随便一圈,圈到哪里就去那里 吧!
呵呵呵呵呵
表骂我啦。。。

小想。。。

一霎那的轰轰烈烈还是永久的细水长流?
难道不是细水长流才是维持一段感情的基础吗?
毕竟世事难如其所愿,往事不堪回首。
我依然相信,明天还是会阳光明媚的!
(虽然我对英国的天气没有很大的信心,但是我知道这是一个不会让我失望的夏天!也很可能是我在英国的最后一个夏天!老天爷一定不会让我失望的!)

猪伤风了。。。

最近热腾腾的话题。。。 猪伤风。。。
搞到我处处都草木皆兵, 疑神疑鬼。。 尤其是一听到办公室里有人咳嗽和打喷嚏的声音。。。
打从星期一开始,我隔壁的老头就一直打喷嚏和咳嗽。。。我们还开玩笑的问他是不是周末去了墨西哥餐厅用餐?
但是从昨天起,他就没有来上班了,听说是拿了病假。。。-_-" 怕怕!
英国的病案已经增加到了8例!随时随地会爆发大规模的传染。。。
原本还想这个周末去伦敦血帡,但是如果情况严重,我看我还是乖乖留在家里晒我的太阳吧!
大家要小心照顾身体哦!